How anonymous am I, really?
You don't give a name, age, or email when you chat. The other person sees an abstract label and a colour. We log as little as we can about conversations — you'll see exactly what we keep in the in-app settings.
What is the personalized note?
It's the small taste profile the AI builds while it asks you about your interests. It lives in your browser, used only to match you. It's not shared with the other person as a profile — just used by the AI to find someone for you.
Can I delete the personalized note?
Yes. One tap in settings clears the local profile, and the AI starts clean next time.
Who sees my interests?
Only the AI uses them — to find you someone who shares at least one. The other person doesn't see your list. They get a sentence introduction like "you both love jazz and books," that's all.
What happens when no match exists?
Two things. First, the AI relaxes the match distance and looks for people with one shared interest instead of two. Second, if it still can't find a fit, it pairs you anyway and becomes the moderator — it picks a starter question that gives both of you something to say.
What does the moderator actually do?
It watches for silence, planted starters, and a topic bridge when the two of you have nothing obvious in common. One tap mutes it. One tap brings it back. It never speaks as either of you.
Can I opt out of matching?
Yes — pick "Let me pick" in the autonomy dial. You see who's online and you write to whoever you want, when you want.
When can I use it?
We're preparing the first build. Leave your email and we'll write once, when two of you are ready.